Cuts through all of the bizarre conditioning imparted by parents, romantic comedies, and The L Word to help queer readers and their straight/cis friends navigate this changing world. Offers advice on everything from coming out to getting your first gay haircut to walking down the aisle.

Coming out -- Of mullets and motorcycles: your guide to the subculture -- Don't stare at her rack too much, and other advice on dating -- But what can two girls do?: your guide to queer sex -- A queer chick's guide to heartbreak -- Bi any means necessary: notes on non-monosexuality -- I'm not gay, but my sister is: advice for straight people -- Haters gonna hate: dealing with discrimination -- If you liked it, then you should have put a ring on it: marriage -- It's not good enough until it's amazing.