Introduction: Relational, low-drama discipline -- ReTHINKING discipline -- Your brain on discipline -- From tantrum to tranquility : connection is the key -- No-drama connection in action -- 1-2-3 discipline : redirecting for today, and for tomorrow -- Addressing behavior : as simple as R-E-D-I-R-E-C-T -- Conclusion: On magic wands, being human, reconnection, and change : four messages of hope.