Introduction -- The green-eyed monster -- Sidebar: are you a jealous person? -- Sidebar: why green? -- Building trust in yourself and others -- Sidebar: close your eyes -- Sidebar: love-- or control? -- Breaking up is hard to do : and get through -- Sidebar: break up mistakes -- Sidebar: myths and facts -- Getting back up after the fall -- Sidebar: staying positive -- Sidebar: 10 questions to ask a counselor -- Life lessons learned -- Sidebar: break ups by the numbers -- Sidebar: break up books -- Glossary -- For more information -- Websites -- For further reading -- Bibliography -- About the author.