"With a new introduction and additional stories"--Cover. Includes index.

Machine generated contents note: pt. One The Four Things -- ch. 1 Saying the Four Things -- ch. 2 The Healing Power of Words -- ch. 3 Completing Relationships -- ch. 4 Transformations -- pt. Two forgiveness -- ch. 5 Loved Ones Live On Inside Us -- ch. 6 Resolving a Legacy of Pain -- ch. 7 The Emotional Economics of Forgiveness -- ch. 8 Extreme Acts of Forgiveness -- ch. 9 Forgiving Yourself -- ch. 10 Living with Uncertainty and Illness -- ch. 11 A Legacy of Pain and Anger: An Opportunity for Forgiveness and Love -- pt. Three Thank You -- ch. 12 Practicing Gratitude -- ch. 13 The Unexpected Grace of Reconnection -- ch. 14 The Family Dynamics of Gratitude -- pt. Your I Love You -- ch. 15 Creative Ways of Saying the Four Things -- ch. 16 Loving the Body -- ch. 17 Living Every Day as if It Were Your First -- or Last -- ch. 18 Lives Intertwined with Love -- ch. 19 Saying I Love You ... Not in So Many Words -- pt. Five Good -- bye -- ch. 20 Nothing Left Unsaid. Note continued: ch. 21 The Mysterious Magic of Some Good-byes -- ch. 22 Good-byes That Are Gifts Through Time -- ch. 23 Good-byes That Celebrate Life.