In this memoir, Leslie Davidson recounts the years that follow the diagnoses--her Parkinson's and her husband Lincoln's Lewy body dementia--charting physical changes, medications, the logistical puzzles of caregiving, and the steady support of their close-knit community in the small town of Grand Forks in south central British Columbia. She describes her struggle to maintain perspective while questioning what having perspective means, and the work of being an advocate while needing an advocate.