Prologue: My father's body -- PRIVATE PARTS: In hiding and on display -- Hard and soft -- Does size matter? -- What is a phallus? -- PUBLIC IMAGES: Fifties Hollywood: the rebel male crashes the wedding -- Gay men's revenge -- Beauty (re)discovers the male body -- THE MALE ANIMAL, RECONSIDERED: Gentleman or beast? : the double bind of masculinity -- The sexual harasser is a bully, not a sex fiend -- Beautiful girls, from both sides now -- Humbert and Lolita -- Coda: My father the feminist.