What to do after your say I do -- Strengthening your bond: respect, trust, and intimacy -- Developing a couple style -- You are not clones: dealing with differences -- Love does not mean never having to say you're sorry: positive, realistic expectations -- Sexuality: creating an intimate, erotic marriage -- Becoming a family -- We can work it out: resolving conflicts -- Sexual problems: dysfunction affairs, infertility -- The most common stress: dealing with money -- Tag team parenting -- Organizing your lives: career conflicts and decisions -- Dealing with in-laws and extended family -- Preventing divorce -- Valuing your spouse and marriage.